Love and sex are sometimes related, but not necessarily. We can love without having sex with someone, in the same way we can have sexual relationships with someone we do not love.
However, the matter becomes more complicated when love and sexuality get entangled and these are situations that are difficult to decipher and resolve. Most of our struggles in intimate relationships involve love and sex issues, and couples need to make conscious efforts to learn to communicate their needs openly and make their sexual relationship pleasant and enjoyable.
There are times when our sexual problems involve casual partners, sexual transmitted diseases or pregnancy. In the same way, there are situations when our ability to engage in sexual relationship is impaired by physiological & psychological dysfunctions, such as frigidity and impotence, but they can be overcome with professional support.
Although still a taboo topic even in the western world, sexuality has started to be explored in more depth in recent decades. I see that clients feel nowadays more encouraged to acknowledge their own drives and desires, they feel more comfortable with their sexual identity and they embrace more fully their sexual feelings.
However, we are still far from engaging with this topic in a balanced way, and many conversations with my clients continue to stay at the extremes: they either hide in the closet and deny or suppress their sexual drives and desires (most times at the cost of terrible inner pain and suffering), or they expose them in a very public way.
Most clients still struggle to talk openly about their erotic life and in many situations sex life is perceived as either a marital duty or a beautiful platform for intimate pleasure and connection, with not much in between.
CREATE SPACE TO EXPLORE, UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT YOUR SEXUALITY
We know that sexuality is essential to our beings, not only for procreation, but also for our overall physical, spiritual and psychological health. Sexuality is a fundamental human right in the Western world, but remains a controversial topic in the East.
In our work, I am guiding my clients to not ignore their sexual impulses and to attend their drives, to understand them and to integrate them into their lives, which has a positive impact on their wellbeing.
Since sexuality is closely linked to your self-esteem also, when you accept and embrace your sexuality, you will most likely feel care, respect and appreciation for yourself, whilst if you struggle to accept your sexual identity you might feel inadequate, insecure and shameful at times.
This makes sexuality correlate with your overall sense of self-worth, but also with other manifestations like low mood and depression, suicide ideation and attempts, anxiety, addiction, eating disorders, borderline behaviours, self-harm, etc.
A healthy way of dealing with your sexuality is to create space in your life to explore it, understand it and eventually accept it as part of your being.
My Online Wellbeing Packages are very efficient if you have a really busy schedule and want to explore your sexuality from the comfort of your home or office.
My Exclusive Wellbeing Retreats are 4 unique and powerful intensive programmes that help you achieve quick, solution focused and permanent life changing results, including your sexuality queries too.
My Corporate Packages are also very helpful in times of career change and sexuality difficulties and have improved the wellbeing of many busy creatives, entrepreneurs and business executives, and many others.